Whose fault is it?

This Chris Brown & Rihanna situation is completely out of hand.....it doesn't make any sense. First off, NO! A man should not put his hands on any woman. But we don't even know the whole story & we probably never will. (Besides the fact that he beat the dog-sh*t out of her.) As far as I'm concerned, she could've initiated the fight and that's when he went ballistic on her. He didn't have to beat her and make violent threats saying, "I'm going to beat the **** out of you when we get home. You wait and see." or "....I'm going to kill you." Not necessary. But just like all humans (did anyone forget Chris Brown is a human being?), we all make mistakes and a lot of us act upon things before thinking or elaborating on the consequences there after. Yes, he was wrong. But I feel he has made a mistake and will have to suffer the consequences and he did that to himself by not thinking before he reacted. And I know a lot of girls/women are saying "She's stupid for getting back with him" and "blah, blah all this." Stay out that woman's business!! If she wants to be with Chris Brown, she's going to be with Chris Brown!! I'm pretty sure many of the women who said that went back to some "man" whose done them wrong or knocked them upside their head a couple times and still with him!! Moral of the story: Don't judge others especially if you don't know the whole situation and especially if you don't even have your own life situations together. Thank You!! =)